Dealing With Male Fantasies
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It is not uncommon to hear about male fantasies. Typically they involve another women joining in with sex or perhaps some role-playing scenario that is out of a woman\'s comfort zone. While men often complain about nagging women, it does not stop them from being nagging creatures themselves. Instead of extinguishing the male fantasy immediately, talk about it and consider the possibilities. These fantasies can bring about other feelings and fantasies that women have also suppressed.
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It is not uncommon to hear about male fantasies. Typically they involve another woman joining in with sex or perhaps some role-playing scenario that is out of a woman's comfort zone. While men often complain about nagging women, it does not stop them from being nagging creatures themselves. Instead of extinguishing the male fantasy immediately, talk about it and consider the possibilities. These fantasies can bring about other feelings and fantasies that women have also suppressed.
Types of Fantasies
The ideal male fantasy is a manifestation of the things he wishes had or will happen in life. Some fantasies are composed around being pleasured a certain way by a woman while he is holding a cigar or beverage; these fantasies simulate a need for power. Teacher, parent or boss role-playing scenarios indicate that the man is looking for someone to dominate him so that he can feel a loss of control. Other fantasies indicate a desire to try something new or for more excitement in the relationship.
Your Feelings
Hearing that your man longs to seemingly demean you in some way or wants to enjoy sex with other women is not easy for any women to hear. However, the intent is never to hurt you. Men are simply expressing the fact that they have unfilled needs or desires. It is important to consider why he has these feelings and access how you feel about the fantasies. Some fantasies may also be interesting to you or perhaps you would be willing to trade your fantasy for his so that both of you are able to try a new experience.
Middle Ground
Talk about each fantasy with your partner and express what areas you do and do not feel comfortable. Once the hairy details are dissolved, take time to talk about the expectations you each have for a specific scenario. Let him talk about his fantasy, in detail so that you can get a clear picture of what he hopes you will accomplish. Talking about sexual fantasies can be arousing in itself for many couples. More importantly, it will give you a guideline for fulfilling these fantasies at a later date. This alleviates the stress of impromptu scenarios if it is your first time fulfilling a sex role.
Playing the Part
Discard your feelings and insecurities about yourself and the expectations that your partner has presented for a sexual fantasy. The best fantasies occur when a person engulfs themselves in a new persona. This may include buying a wig or costume and setting the stage at home for the fantasy. Secretly planning a time to fulfill the fantasies will help surprise your partner and make the adventure all the more exciting.
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