How To Seduce Your Wife
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How to keep your love life humming. Seduction is a wonderful experience and need not be abandoned just because we\'re married. Keep that spark in your relationship with these fun, sexy tips.
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Sex is play for adults. It is important for a healthy relationship, we all know that.
But after being together for a while the spark and excitement can diminish. We can all remember the pleasure of that first encounter with our partner, being on the edge of ecstasy. Rediscover that experience by learning how to seduce - again - that special woman in your life.
For most women sexual excitement is partially occurring in the brain. It's cerebral. To understand seduction and how to create it, think of it as three components: anticipation, the tease, and, finally the Big Ah!
ANTICIPATION: Seduction is all about building sexual tension. You may want to set a date with your lady, telling her not to make plans for that day. Begin the mystery.Then start the build, all with the purpose of telling her she's loved and wanted.
Here are a few things to do to create anticipation:
• Send, or bring her a special gift: her favorite chocolates, perfume, music, etc. Remember presentation is part of the attraction, so buy a romantic bag or box. (Tip: little statues from the gas station do not work.)
• Send her romantic emails or, better yet, leave a hand written note about the upcoming event. (Tip: e.g., "can't wait for Saturday night," or "been thinking about you," or, just the classic, "I love you.")
• Give her a "fly by nibble." Just a quick kiss or nibble with a short whisper, ("I love loving you," or "you taste (or feel) so sexy.")
TEASE: The tease happens just before you actually make love. Two movie scenes that show interesting teases are Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid where Robert Redford does a fake rape scene with Katharine Ross, and the scene in Notting Hill in which Hugh Grant undresses Julia Roberts. There are, of course, a whole lot more...
• Tempo: The essence of the tease is that it is slow. Undress slowly, explore slowly, love slowly.
• Almost: Almost kiss, almost (or lightly) touch, almost engage those body parts.
• Communicate: Hint with words and touch what's about to happen and your feelings... ("I love making love to you..." "I could spend a week on your XYZ.")
• Something new: Introducing something to your routine can be extremely exciting, e.g. oils that give sensations (warmth or tingling for example) or adult toys.
THE BIG AH! If you've done the above build-ups the final moments will be a joining of two people who are not only extremely aroused but feeling loved, feeling connected. Remember sex is play and sex is communication.
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