How to Please Your Man in Bed - 3 Things Every Woman Must Know
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Happy relationships come from the bonding of two people that are happy with who they are and happy to be where they are, be it in a marriage, a live-in arrangement, or in a relationship of dating. The happiest people are usually, not always, but usually those that are committed to each other. They have worked through the insecurity stage, commitments have followed the trust building stage, and they are glad in one another.
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Happy relationships come from the bonding of two people that are happy with who they are and happy to be where they are, be it in a marriage, a live-in arrangement, or in a relationship of dating. The happiest people are usually, not always, but usually those that are committed to each other. They have worked through the insecurity stage, commitments have followed the trust building stage, and they are glad in one another.
Undeniably, new relationships are the most fun. Each day brings new excitement - intensity, exploration, and discovery and in each new relationship the number one priority for both people, is sex. Grand, glorious, and heated sex - in the beginning, we love it and can't get enough of it.
Unfortunately, the heat of the moment wears off and a true relationship begins.
There are a few characteristics that point to happy couples - are you part of a happy couple? Look over the following and give it some thought:
You love each other and enjoy your mutual commitment
You share equal control when making decisions about important things
You have bonded and now have friends as a couple and individually
You enjoy each other as individuals - you love and share each others accomplishments
You can talk about your feelings and listen to him talk of his, and it's wonderful
You both understand the needs and desires of the other - conflicts can be resolved without a grudge
You empathize with each other and realize each have issues - yours are yours, his are his and you don't take ownership
You have been able to set stable, powerful boundaries - you both need these so you don't lose sight of who you are
And last, but definitely not least, is
You have a great sex life that brings comfort and delight to both of you
Sexual relationship, though last on this list might prove to be the most important. How many of your girlfriends are in relationships they wish they weren't in? Why then are they still in them?
Pleasing your man in bed looks different at different stages of the relationship and these stages evolve and change around time. A new relationship is fraught with frantic sexual encounters - ripping off clothes, getting it on against the wall, on the floor, in the bathtub or shower, in the car, on the stairs...you get the picture.
A few years into the relationship things have cooled off - for a lot of reasons, passion fades - we get too busy for sex, we want sex but maybe the guy in the office looks better than your significant other, and then maybe, sex just isn't what it used to be, you can't even remember the last time. Problems are on the horizon.
Number One
Don't ever believe that sex isn't important. It is vital. He will love you desperately forever if you realize that one thing. If you're too tired at night, wake up early and snuggle close, caress him where he loves to be touched and let things happen spontaneously from there. Enjoy mutual orgasm's - anyway that works for the two of you - front, back, you on top. Never forget, a gentle touch will go a long way - most men love to be touched and hugged.
Number Two
Indulge your man's desires with great sex about once a week or at least every two weeks. Pull out all stops, let him know you want him, that you think he's sexy, go after him. This might be when you want to tell him how much he means to you and that you need him in your life as much as you need sunshine. Let him know how much you are looking forward to spending the rest of your life with him.
Number Three
Every relationship - marriage, dating, or living-in - comes with times of stress, an argument, money, misunderstandings; a new baby, a big job promotions; the ugly things in life, a death, an indiscretion, major illness in the family - god there can be so many. But then, in a moment of renewal, of reconnecting - sexual feelings, desires, and urgent needs must be met. And oh, can it be so incredible. You have to take advantage of this opportunity when it presents itself. These happen in every relationship. You will look different to him and he will look different to you. Take it slow, caress, feel, touch, kiss and hug, bring pleasure in any form that feels right at the time. Make it last a few days, go off by yourself if you can. It's important.
During your relationship, take necessary time to rediscover what it was that drew him to you - respect him, what he says, what he brings to your union, and enjoy your time together. Have fun, don't take yourself seriously every waking moment. He fell in love with you for so many reasons, you owe it to each other to share those moments in the most tender way imaginable.
Andy Rooney said, " Men wake up aroused in the morning. We can't help it. We just wake up and we want you. And the women are thinking, "How can he want me the way I look in the morning?" It's because we can't see you. We have no blood anywhere near our optic nerve."
This is exactly how most men feel every morning of their existence!
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