Oral Pleasure Made Simple
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As many men will know, it\'s rather hard for a woman to reach orgasm during conventional sexual intercourse. This isn\'t to say that women don\'t enjoy this ultimate form of loving connection with their male partners, because the sensation of physical union can be extremely rewarding emotionally. What it does mean, however, is that if a woman is to be physically and emotionally fulfilled during a sexual encounter with her partner, then he must find a way to bring her to orgasm that does not depend on intercourse alone.
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As many men will know, it's rather hard for a woman to reach orgasm during conventional sexual intercourse. This isn't to say that women don't enjoy this ultimate form of loving connection with their male partners, because the sensation of physical union can be extremely rewarding emotionally. What it does mean, however, is that if a woman is to be physically and emotionally fulfilled during a sexual encounter with her partner, then he must find a way to bring her to orgasm that does not depend on intercourse alone.
Fortunately for all men everywhere, women almost universally say that they prefer oral sex to intercourse as a means of reaching climax. Now, in some cultures this may not be acceptable, but in Western society oral sex has become almost de rigueur in a healthy sexual relationship. It's a foolish man indeed who ignores his partner's expectation that he will pleasure her orally - not only because he deprives her of orgasmic pleasure, but also because he deprives himself of the extremely arousing and satisfying pleasures that can be derived from such intimate connection with an aroused woman.
And, provided a woman has at least twenty minutes of foreplay, which includes kissing, caressing, cuddling, and fondling, she's well primed to reach orgasm, and when a man also enjoys pleasuring her orally, it's almost guaranteed that she will reach a climax.
So oral sex has a lot going for it, that much is clear! Unfortunately, as all couples who have tried it will have discovered, it isn't necessarily the easiest form of sexual pleasure from physical point of view. So the objective of this brief article is to give some pointers to oral sex positions which might actually be helpful in preventing cricked necks and aching limbs!
Perhaps the easiest oral sex position to adopt is to have the woman lying on her back on the bed so that her legs are bent at the knees and her feet touch the floor. In this way, she can part her legs and give her man full access to her clitoris and vulva as he kneels on the floor in front of her. It's also possible for the woman to have her feet flat on the bed, near the edge of the bed, as the man kneels on the floor.
If you want to enjoy oral sex whilst the woman lies flat on the bed, then it's useful for her to have her knees up and her feet flat on the bed, perhaps with her legs supported by pillows so she doesn't get tired. Instead of lying flat on his stomach on the bed and approaching her vulva in the way most couples adopt for oral sex, the man can try an alternative oral sex position: he can lie beside her with his feet up alongside her head, supporting himself on one elbow as he reaches his partner's vulva over her belly and thigh. In other words, his body is pointing in the opposite direction to his partner's, but his head is positioned at the level of her genitals, and he reaches her vulva over the top of her thigh, in the fold between her thigh and her belly.
And finally, the other oral sex position which can be quite enjoyable, if only as a novelty, is the one that has long been known as "soxiante-neuf" or sixty-nine, where one partner lies on the bed, and the other kneels over them facing in the opposite direction so that each partner's genitals are located near the other's face and head. One of the disadvantages with "sixty-nining" is that it can be difficult to focus on your partners pleasure when you yourself are reaching orgasm, but it's certainly an entertaining and enjoyable position which exemplifies the best aspect of sex - having fun with your partner!
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