Sexuality, the Critical Link
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An article exploring the connection between weight loss, sexuality, dating, positive attitude and careers. The fundamental link between them, it is argued, is a person\'s level of sexual activity.
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What connection is there between the five important areas of modern life, obesity, careers, dating, positive attitude and sexuality? I venture to suggest that, while initially there may not appear to be any direct link, in fact, there is a strong relationship between them.
Firstly, and most pleasingly, I propose that weight loss, something of great concern to many these days, will come of its own accord through the other four. But the continuous thread through them all is, perhaps surprisingly for some, sexuality.
Why do I say this? Well, if a person has a vibrant and fulfilling sex life, then their body will be getting a great workout on a regular basis. Their endocrine system will be functioning optimally and their psychological state will be in fine shape because their primal physical urges will be satisfied. And they'll feel great about themselves, which will in turn encourage them to view life positively, as well as, lovingly.
Feeling good about themselves, they'll transmit this self-confidence to the people around them, who will in turn be attracted to them. Consequently, those other people will be interested in their character and personality, drawn to their ebullience and vitality, and be keen on dating them. So, there arises a positive psychological feedback situation in which the person constantly gains reinforcement and encouragement through their popularity.
But how does this connect with careers? At first sight, there might appear to be no direct link, but actually there is. When a person has a high libido and a positive outlook on life, they will never be inactive, disinterested or lethargic, all of which run contrary to a healthy, dynamic lifestyle. Emotionally-mature, sexually-active humans tend not to be frustrated, and therefore less inclined to become angry or aggressive. Their social relations are well-balanced and characterized by a naturalness that puts other people around them at ease. They also tend to be more spontaneous and responsive, open and joyous.
What then constitutes a career? Isn't it just a continuum of moving onwards from where one left off yesterday? Getting things done, solving problems, dealing with both new and routine situations with competence and confidence. Feeling that life is moving in a positive direction, we avoid looking back with regret, look forward to the next challenge, one that we feel capable of handling. And so our career, our chosen area of expertise, develops in an organic, flowing way; one phase evolving seamlessly into the next, until, one day, we look quietly and objectively at what has come to pass and think appreciatively of all the creativity that has gone into our life's work.
And what is it that underlies all that creativity? Our sexuality; the primal urge to procreate gives us the opportunity and means to practise emotional and physical creativity spontaneously, joyously and intimately in a profound act of communication with our universe. For it is in our relationships with others that our own existence enters a wider dimension involving a maturity of presence beyond egocentricity. Then we can care for others - our family, friends, acquaintances and fellow-citizens - from a position of satisfaction and contentment which will in turn nourish everybody concerned. Feeling this level of fulfillment one is less inclined to resort to filling one's stomach in an attempt to fill the emotional void that accompanies alienation and sexual frustration.
So, there you have it - weight loss comes of its own accord with sex gain, our careers take off, our dating agenda fills up and positive thoughts lead to positive actions. As the hippies used to say, 'Make love, not war!' and all will be happy and good fortune will come knocking at your door.
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