The 3 Biggest Mistakes Men and Women Make During Sex
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Lovemaking between a couple in a committed relationship is an expression of their love and should be an enjoyable and fun act. In a long term relationship, you probably know all the moves and tricks to turn your partner on, right? Perhaps not.
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Lovemaking between a couple in a committed relationship is an expression of their love and should be an enjoyable and fun act. In a long term relationship, you probably know all the moves and tricks to turn your partner on, right?
Perhaps not. There could be a part of your performance that your partner is unhappy with and may need improving. They may be too worried to tell you and hurt your feelings. And vice versa - you may not be satisfied with your sex life but how do you tell your partner?
Maybe you've fallen into a rut, running the same moves over and over because that's what works. Here are three guaranteed mood killers, which can ultimately lead to less time in the bedroom:
Pressure
If your partner is not interested in having sex, don't attempt to whinge or nag them into bed or cajole them into doing something they don't want to. And certainly don't make them feel guilty! It won't make the sex enjoyable and could lead to feelings of resentment from your partner.
If they've told you they're not interested, leave it be. If it's an ongoing issue, perhaps there are deeper problems you should both address. Otherwise, they'll let you know when they're ready and what they like and dislike doing.
Faking it
Don't fake your enjoyment when you are with your partner or act over the top. No one likes to be patronised. How would you feel if your partner was dishonest about your sexual performance? You should have a strong enough relationship to talk to them if your bedroom time isn't how you would like. it to be Not that it should stop you from screaming the house down if it really is that good!
Mute
At the other extreme, don't stay silent either. How will they know if you're enjoying what they're doing? Don't say nothing in the hope they may get the hint that you're not enjoying the experience. Gently lead them in the direction you'd like to go.
These tips all rely on one thing - communication. If you can communicate well in your relationship, it will lead to a better understanding in the bedroom and an improved sex life. If the rest of your relationship is built on good communication it will be easier to talk about anything going on between the sheets.
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