What Men Really Want When It Comes to Sex
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So what do men want when it comes to sex? Well, there are two things that if you (as his female counterpart) were to follow, would massively enhance your relationship, that\'s both between the sheets and out. And the two things are (did you guess it?): \'more\' sex and confidence.
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So what do men want when it comes to sex? Well, there are two things that if you (as his female counterpart) were to follow, would massively enhance your relationship, that's both between the sheets and out. And the two things are (did you guess it?): 'more' sex and confidence.
Yes, I know it sounds too simple to be true but seriously, if you were to follow those two golden rules, you would be amazed at the difference in your relationship; your hubby (or boyfriend) would be that much happier, content and relaxed on 'every' level. You personally would also feel so much better - it's like you're each bouncing off one another in a more contented relaxed state - because he's getting what he wants, he's more amendable, more helpful and just 'wants' to do things for you, without you having to ask!
Okay - so now you say - well how much sex is enough sex in 'his' books. Well, I don't care how long you've been together, you should be making out on a regular basis. Obviously depending on work schedules, children being around etc, three times a week would keep most guys happy. Once a day is obviously ideal but how many guys get that?
Even without kids and no particular outside distractions, sometimes you just miss a day here and a day there - that's normal. What's not normal is going for two weeks at a stretch for example with no physical contact - that ain't good sister. And if it's longer than that, well, then you do have issues about something, don't you!
Moving swiftly on to that other gem - confidence. Girls, I cannot express this strongly enough - guys absolutely love gals with confidence, sass, vavoom, call it what you will. And they absolutely do not like anxiety, nervousness or anything like that when it comes to sex. It makes them feel uncomfortable and completely ruins the mood.
And if you want to talk specifics about what men really want when it comes to sex, well the list includes (and is definitely not limited to these few reminders)... Don't talk to much in bed - yes seriously - this is not the time to talk kids, shopping, your mother in law. If you're not talking sexy, loving, dirty - then don't bother saying it in bed!
Guys are visual creatures - they like to look - so leave the light on - or at least a lamp. You might think you've got a few lumps and bumps - all he sees in breasts and bum and flesh - and he loves it, so don't deprive him; you should be happy that he wants to ogle you...
Men also love dress up - as in, 'you' dressing up in something naughty, elegant, whatever - men like it. They also absolutely 'love' enthusiasm. A few groans thrown in for good measure when you're having a session lets him know that you 'want' him and desire him. You don't want to be having 'silent' sex - that can't be good for either one of you - how the hell do you know if your partner is loving it or hating it? So make some noise, he'll love it...
And of course the list goes on when it comes to what men like and want when it comes to sex, but with good communication and with time, hopefully you'll pick up on that... Just keep it regular, be confident and throw in a bit of variety every now and then...
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